Forgiveness is hard

Hey y’all, how are you doing? I’m enjoying the sun and some holiday feelings today. A few days ago I got into a fight with someone at work. And I feel that I’m still carrying this around. We are going to have a conversation about this after my holiday and yet I am intrigued by how strong my emotions stay around this communication. It feels to me that I have always had a struggle with forgiveness, both forgiving myself for past actions/decisions as well as other people for their actions. While writing this post, I remember Christopher mentioning a quote on twitter if I’m not mistaken: "forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could have been any different" and it seems to be a quote by Oprah.

If you have any resources that you feel might help me in this struggle, please leave a comment below and you get instant karma points. Thanks.